Into a love story… we should chase for a certain type of profile … not for the standards induced by society … written by the renowned romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Into a love story… we should chase for a certain type of profile … not for the standards induced by society … written by the renowned romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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I see people dreaming of the ideal partner all the time.
… and defining this … so, so good.
… with lots of details.
But looking in social media …i see for example standards of beauty from all around the world … and i smile.
The perfection of feminine beauty is defined one way in Europe … totally different in arab countries … or asian … or african …
And i wonder if i would actually be attracted by the model of perfect woman from Japan … or Indonesia … or Mexico … or Nigeria etc etc.
I study more and more the subject … liking and disliking those perceptions… but … i don’t really want to connect to any of those models of beauty.
I see ladies trying to look so, so much …. like those standards … and i see men liking mainly this profiles … but …
Again … i see this but … in front of something that is actually
the representation of … perfection.
Yes …
But i just can’t connect and synchronise with …. the standards.
… maybe because i see deeper …and i smile seeing that the perfection of beauty is related only and only with … exterior.
Society induced us … standards in everything … but … not telling us anything about the masks of the human being.
We should simple shut up … accept all for granted … and dream only and only for those profiles.
And no one says anything… about the inner beauty …
Is like that’s … a nonsense.
But …. into the end … synchronised only with the standards induced by the others … we end up chasing for illusory.
We can’t really understand the complexity of the meaning of … perfection.
And not paying attention at all the details … we just fail.
We try to connect to partners that others thought that are perfect for us … not being aware that we should actually chase for a model that is suitable for us … even if it is in contradiction with the standards.
I smile …
And maybe i even laugh … realising how easily we allowed to be dominated by the opinion of others … and not paying attention at all the aspects related to a possible new partner … we totally forgot that behind any human … there is a soul.
The soul is always covered by a mark … but we just see the masks.
Nothing more ….
Anything else … is irrelevant…
And you know why?!
Because they taught us to be superficial… and believe only in their opinions about … standards.
Then … everyone sees us complaining about our love relationships.
Some … more naives … write poems.
… or love essays.
Defining … the disillusion ….
But it’s all because we believed that their standards about perfections … are the absolute truth…
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